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There comes a time for many families when elderly parents must rely on their adult children for support. Unfortunately, being a caregiver is not easy. Siblings might disagree about responsibilities or methods of care, leading to conflicts. Understanding what issues might come up can help you prevent problems and know how to resolve them if they do arise. 

Issues That May Occur

When caring for elderly parents, adult siblings may fight when it comes to logistical issues. Everyone has their own obligations outside of caregiving, so it can be challenging to designate who will do laundry, cook, clean, run errands, and accompany the parent to doctor’s appointments. It may also be challenging to determine who will manage a parent’s finances. You may disagree upon budgeting, how to invest and save, and how much to set aside for healthcare costs.

How to Prevent and Resolve Disputes

caregiverEffective communication is the best way to prevent and resolve disputes. Be honest with your siblings about your feelings and needs, but, at the same time, be considerate of theirs and try to see their perspective on the issue. Refrain from accusing each other or being defensive, and be open to compromise. Try to divvy up responsibilities fairly and logically.

For instance, if you have a more flexible schedule during the week, you might look after your parent on weekdays while your sibling takes the weekends, or you might alternate from one week or month to the next. Hold regular meetings to ensure everyone is on the same page.

However, if things become particularly heated, you might consider going to family counseling or hiring a mediator. Investing in caregiver training or hiring an elder care professional may also be helpful for you and your siblings as well as your parent.

 

If you’re a Saint Louis, MO, area resident caring for an elderly family member, turn to the compassionate professionals at Memory Care Home Solutions. This experienced team is your resource for caregiver training and support, including education in dementia and Alzheimer’s care. Call (314) 645-6247 to speak with a helpful staff member to learn how they can help you care better for your loved one. Or visit the website to learn more about their range of caregiver training opportunities and support solutions. 

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